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Originally Posted by aceventura3
Then I asked why she wanted to make all these changes since I like her the way she is .
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I'm glad you are communicating. However, I have to ask you to take yourself out of the situation for a second. Perhaps she is changing not because of you, but because of herself and what she wants? Maybe she simply wants to try on a new look and way of living, and it has nothing to do with you whatsoever.
You might like her "the way she is," but maybe she's tired of the way she is... and that should really be okay with you. It can be pretty constraining on a person if she's been "the way she is" for 10+ years... especially if it's just because you like it, and she's in the mood for a change. I apologize if I sound harsh, but I'm just saying that she's an individual and has a right to change certain things (especially tiny things, like her hair or salad condiments).
Embrace change, man! It puts hair on your chest (if you don't already have some).
And keep talking.
