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genuinegirly · 05-26-2006, 09:08 AM

First off - I have to say that you are a kind, concerned, sensitive man. This is so good to see. So few men show such concern and interest in their wives. you really love her, and seem willing to go to great lengths to keep her! I mean, really, you read women's magazines when they're handy, to try and understand how her mind works - this is a sign of true love/

It's so incredibly cute to me that you connected a change in diet with a possible affair. It's good that you brought your irrational thought here to a forum to hash out. You saw it as irrational - which is good, but you wanted to run it by someone. Awesome. It gave most of us a laugh or two, and provided a fun and silly way to relate to you. Sometimes the illogical side just wins out, and we need others to run it by to be sure we're not insane. Everyone has been there.

Oh, it's good to hear that the two of you have chatted. Sounds like you two have a healthy communication style.

About the potential hair change - Maybe she has just been watching some fun makeover TV shows, and she feels like she wants a little minor change. Women do this sort of thing a lot.

I'm glad that she warned you before she changed her hair color and hair length. Otherwise you might have been freaked out and worried that things were over for good! Now you know that it's nothing to be worried over.

Bac O' Bits are delicious. I love them on my salads! Boca Burgers are nummy, too. They do tend to be "Chick food" though, just make sure you get what you like, too.

I'm sure she's going through a period of minor - Fun! - changes. I think you'll have a lot of fun with it, too. Just make sure that you keep talking. And remember to tell her that you loved her the way she was before, the way she is now, and that you will always love her no matter what. There's nothing quite so reassuring.

Oh, you are so cute!

05-26-2006, 09:08 AM	#41 (permalink)
genuinegirly Eat your vegetables Super Moderator Location: Arabidopsis-ville	First off - I have to say that you are a kind, concerned, sensitive man. This is so good to see. So few men show such concern and interest in their wives. you really love her, and seem willing to go to great lengths to keep her! I mean, really, you read women's magazines when they're handy, to try and understand how her mind works - this is a sign of true love/ It's so incredibly cute to me that you connected a change in diet with a possible affair. It's good that you brought your irrational thought here to a forum to hash out. You saw it as irrational - which is good, but you wanted to run it by someone. Awesome. It gave most of us a laugh or two, and provided a fun and silly way to relate to you. Sometimes the illogical side just wins out, and we need others to run it by to be sure we're not insane. Everyone has been there. Oh, it's good to hear that the two of you have chatted. Sounds like you two have a healthy communication style. About the potential hair change - Maybe she has just been watching some fun makeover TV shows, and she feels like she wants a little minor change. Women do this sort of thing a lot. I'm glad that she warned you before she changed her hair color and hair length. Otherwise you might have been freaked out and worried that things were over for good! Now you know that it's nothing to be worried over. Bac O' Bits are delicious. I love them on my salads! Boca Burgers are nummy, too. They do tend to be "Chick food" though, just make sure you get what you like, too. I'm sure she's going through a period of minor - Fun! - changes. I think you'll have a lot of fun with it, too. Just make sure that you keep talking. And remember to tell her that you loved her the way she was before, the way she is now, and that you will always love her no matter what. There's nothing quite so reassuring. Oh, you are so cute! __________________ "Sometimes I have to remember that things are brought to me for a reason, either for my own lessons or for the benefit of others." Cynthetiq "violence is no more or less real than non-violence." roachboy