Good to hear it, man. That's what we're here for. Now please let us know how it goes, okay?
I also wanted to respond to this:
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Originally Posted by 62ford
the reason i have been acting like this is a fear of losing her........
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Well, I hate to say this, but that's exactly the opposite way to go about "keeping" her. Giving in to her way all the time is a good way to *lose* a relationship. How are you supposed to respect each other as equals, when it's totally unbalanced? You both need to gain each other's respect back again... which means that yes, you need to get your balls back and see yourself as her equal again.
You both have rights and responsibilities in a marriage; it's best to lay those out clearly now, and be very honest about what expectations you have for yourselves and each other (no matter how irrational they seem, you HAVE to communicate them out loud... unless you're both mind-readers, which it doesn't appear that you are).
You can't start learning and compromising unless you have a better idea of where each person is coming from.