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Hmmm... agreed Mal. I can see how, perhaps, the first stages of friendship with your wife's friends could seem uncomfortable but i can say that some of my greatest friends are my SO's; now... after some work. And you're looking at this quite simply. As if what she is saying is whats wrong. Obviously something is stressing her out, making her uncomfortable. Talk to her. I don't understand how people don't communicate in a relationship? It should be simple. Arn't relationships about finding someone that you can trust and cherish enough to bring down those walls in the first place? Be honest. Yeah man, it's hard. Thats life, no? And I know all about wanting to be right, about being proud. Relationships mean shamelessness (trust me). I know my girlfriend was raised in an enviroment that if you talked you were scared into not speaking again... it took awhile for me to convince her I wanted to hear her honest. You can't fix problems... if you don't fix them; pretty simple huh? Don't be suspicious. She is uncomfortable at home man.
And it also seems that she isn't giving very much either. But it is a RELATIONSHIP. It's both of you, therefore it is no ones fault exactly. It just seems like no one is talking and everyone is getting more frusterated. I've been there. The best thing is to talk to her, and you will both discover why you love each other so much. So much you would stand infront of your loved ones and promise fidelity and love forever.
Thats my... what? Six and a half cents lets say
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