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I don't know where to begin.
Let me first say, as a disclaimer, that I have a bias against the idea of getting married young. It's not always the wrong idea, but it is more often a bad idea than it is not a bad idea. Keep in mind, I married the guy I started dating at 18... but we married when I was 26.
She was 17 when you started dating. You were 19. You got married when she was 19 and you were 21. Having been there... your relationship is going to go through a LOT of growing pains and changes. It has to in order to evolve and survive. Both of you are changing and maturing, and it's hard to do that *with* someone (trust me, I know). She's probably getting itchy feet etc. because she's a young woman, barely old enough to drink, and probably wants to get out and experience more life. That's not necessarily incompatible with being married, but it can be.
Talk to her. Lots. Honesty is a requirement.
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My heart knows me better than I know myself, so I'm gonna let it do all the talkin'.
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