two things:
Act As If....
While I'm not a fan of Ben Affleck, his speech in Boiler Room is a good motivator.
Quote:
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There's an important phrase that we use here, and think it's time that you all learned it. Act as if. You understand what that means? Act as if you are the fucking President of this firm. Act as if you got a 9" cock. Okay? Act as if.
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Second, you want to have higher self esteem? Do esteemable actions. What does that mean. It means doing more than what you've been doing. If you've been sitting on the sofa, it means going out into the real world. It means doing service to your fellow human being. Volunteer at a soup kitchen, read to some people in an old folks home. Spend time outside of your own head and in the presence of someone else's.
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I don't care if you are black, white, purple, green, Chinese, Japanese, Korean, hippie, cop, bum, admin, user, English, Irish, French, Catholic, Protestant, Jewish, Buddhist, Muslim, indian, cowboy, tall, short, fat, skinny, emo, punk, mod, rocker, straight, gay, lesbian, jock, nerd, geek, Democrat, Republican, Libertarian, Independent, driver, pedestrian, or bicyclist, either you're an asshole or you're not.
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