I was in a frigid Marriage....it is not a good thing.
I am no longer in that marriage. Though this was not the only reason for the divorce, it did play into it heavily on hindsight. When a woman tells her husband she will "Comply with her Wifely Duties" (heavily Christian)....it kinda puts a damper on the Love Life.
Did I cheat...No. But I made her think I did, to fascilitate the divorce. She is now aware of what I did , and Why I did it. We are amiable, but very distant.
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Holding onto anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned. - Buddha
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