Shesus brings up a good point, personalities change a lot at that stage in life. Mine is a similar story. I was in my late teens, into early twenties, with a guy. We were together for 2 1/2 years, I was madly in love, he was the one, etc. We didn't get to the wedding plans stage, but we did grow apart, and I'm glad we did then, before anything legal or children became involved.
Some people can do the forever thing from a young age. My aunt and uncle got married when she was 16 and he was 18. They have grandkids now, and are still together, but I think a lot of that has to do with their deep religious beliefs. It made them strong as individuals, and gave them a strong base as a couple. Also kept their interests in the same area.
Keep communication open. No matter how shy you are, keep talking to her. That's what will help your decisions. Good luck. =)
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