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CaliLivChick · 05-18-2006, 05:22 PM

I would recommend the bar as well. Just advise her not to drink too many shots in a short amount of time, unless she's been drinking for awhile and has built up a tolerance. My ex-boyfriend and I went bar hopping for my 21st birthday. We started out around 8pm, and I was back home around 10, drunk off my ass, and had already puked in a Friday's bathroom. Needless to say, I didn't have a tolerance, and I didn't have nearly as good of a time as I would have if I had been able to stay up longer and party. If I could change that evening, I probably would, just so I could have a better time.

Save the theme party for another birthday, or for just-because. Oh, and invite us to the party when you have it. Sounds like fun. My final piece of advice, if this isn't a surprise party, tell her our thoughts and experiences, and let her make the decision. That way, she can't get mad. As with all things in relationships, communication is key. Good luck, and let us know what you guys decide. =)

05-18-2006, 05:22 PM	#8 (permalink)
CaliLivChick In Transition Location: Sanford, FL (between Daytona and Orlando)	I would recommend the bar as well. Just advise her not to drink too many shots in a short amount of time, unless she's been drinking for awhile and has built up a tolerance. My ex-boyfriend and I went bar hopping for my 21st birthday. We started out around 8pm, and I was back home around 10, drunk off my ass, and had already puked in a Friday's bathroom. Needless to say, I didn't have a tolerance, and I didn't have nearly as good of a time as I would have if I had been able to stay up longer and party. If I could change that evening, I probably would, just so I could have a better time. Save the theme party for another birthday, or for just-because. Oh, and invite us to the party when you have it. Sounds like fun. My final piece of advice, if this isn't a surprise party, tell her our thoughts and experiences, and let her make the decision. That way, she can't get mad. As with all things in relationships, communication is key. Good luck, and let us know what you guys decide. =) __________________ Don't trust anything that can bleed for a week and not die. Oh wait, that's me... nevermind... you can trust me. Last edited by CaliLivChick; 05-18-2006 at 05:28 PM..