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In a way I believe in soulmates, but I also believe that there isn't just one person out there for everyone.
I also think that maybe she is telling you to experiment with other girls because she wants to be with other guys still. But I don't know the situation so I might be totally off. However, the fact that the 'Go out and have sexual escapades' was intertwined with the 'I saw my old boyfriend' talk it seems like she's justifying a way to get something else that she wants. Therefore if you participate in sexual activity, she won't feel as guilty when she does.
The threesome thing, well open communication needs to be there well before it occurs. It can cause messy situations quickly. And while you are saying that you just wish you would get over yourself and do it...well that could ruin the relationship you have because it will introduce many other factors and feelings in the relationship.
The last thing I would like to say and I may be overstepping, but you 2 are young. This is your first girl and while you may be head over heels and be happy forever, things change and many changes take place in personalities and views in the early 20s. Just don't let the soulmate thought and first love feeling keep you in a relationship that might not be the best for you. I was in the same situation when I was around that age. Everything was perfect and I was so in love...I changed, he changed and I ended it during wedding plans. If she's talking about being with other people and you aren't comfortable with it, this may not be the right one for you.
I'd say tell her how you feel and keeps the lines of communication opened. Good luck, relationships can be tough, but the good ones are easy.
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