Ok.. so the question that you would have asked had you not been sleepy.. .is HOW do you make a decision?
I make a decision by listing out the plusses and minusses for each choice and deciding from there which is the lesser of two evils and go with it.
I have a big decision coming up, and I honestly haven't made up my mind yet which way I'm going... my usual method isn't working because no matter which way i go, i'm going to let someone down and they are going to be disappointed... I'm not good with that at all.. and i avoid it at all costs, often at the expense of my happiness.
How do you deal with disappointing other people?
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