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There's so many opinions here that I have to agree with. I'm a single mum with a nearly 3 year old daughter. She just loves her daddy to pieces, vice versa and rightfully so, and for some of the reasons listed above, I'm very aware of how I introduce someone new into her life. Yes, she sees new people alot and she's very outgoing, but I've seen her look kind of 'unsure' for want of a better word, when she's seen another guy other than her daddy give me a cuddle or kiss.
She's my #1 priority and I need to make her feel comfortable with the people I spend time with. And I fully believe that kids need stability with in their lives - or at least that's how I was raised.
Basically what I'm saying in my ramblings, is that if I were the girl, I would probably date Smooth23 for a bit to see how things were between us, and then if all was good, he was keen, introduce him as a friend first and let them get aquainted. How she reacts to him would play a big deciding fact on how things progress from there.
But you both are only young, and she may just want someone to 'have fun' with away from her motherly duties if she has support from others to look after her child.
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ciao bella!
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