I was 20 when I started dating my husband, and on our first date he informed me that he had an 8-year-old son. Dating a daddy was weird at first, since I had never dated anyone with kids before, nor did I know anyone else with kids, but it all worked out in the end. His son is a really great kid, and he's tons of fun to hang out with. I'll admit, however, that at first I was jealous that hubby shared this permanent connection with another woman through their child, but then I realized how stupid and juvenile I was being and got over it.
Just understand that the needs/happiness of her child will ALWAYS come before yours. If you can't accept that, then don't get involved with her.
(edited for grammatical clarification)
Last edited by TotalMILF; 05-10-2006 at 09:04 PM..
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