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Old 05-10-2006, 05:50 PM   #46 (permalink)
KnifeMissile
 
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Originally Posted by Charlatan
The person who accused you of "creepiness" was an ass. If she had concerns she should have approached you in a calm rational manner and asked what you were up to and then taken appropriate action (which could have included anything from letting you carry on, to asking you to let her get her kids out of the shot, etc.). The key is communication and, if neccessary negotiation.

I feel like you are coming at this situation and seeing it through the lense of your negative experience and are blind to other possibilities. I have to believe that you can see the situation where someone doesn't want there picture taken and doesn't freak out. Now we seem to have established that they have no rights and that you can do what you please. Answer this: Is this how you want to go through life? Do you want to forego communication and interaction and rely only on what your legal rights are? (clearly I am exagerating here).

The thing to remember is that anyone can be an ass. The question is do you want to be one and how do you react when you meet one?
A good point. To be honest, I really don't know what I could have done with my accuser. I think I might very well have been more afraid of her than she was of me! She really didn't care what I had to say for myself and the only thing I could think to do was calmly back away.

I don't claim to have any answers, I just think this attitude is ludicrous and do wish that people could see that. Everything I have ever posted in this thread is towards this end...
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