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Originally Posted by getwonk'd
It sounds like she really needs professional help. If she is truly suicidal, you need to step in. Call a health care and ask for advice. You don't have to tell them your name, just explain the situation. She needs your help NOW. How old are her kids? If things are as bad as you said, they also need your help. Ask her straight out if she is planning to kill herself. When people get to that point, they will tell you the truth. Don't worry about putting the idea in her head because, I'm sure its already there. More than likely, the videotape is not the whole issue. Feeling used , left and unsure of how it affects her is.
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To answer your first question, her children are four and eight years old.
To answer your second question, she has stated numerous times that she's thinking about slitting her wrists. I know that once (Ten or so years ago), she tried to slit her wrists and ended up in home for teens for around two years, so I know that when she talks about suicide, she's serious (At least I believe she is).
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Originally Posted by instant-karma
She's your friend? "set up by a few guys"? and you don't know the details? Get her to talk about it, if you don't know the details you don't know if she was date raped or not, whether she perceives it was her fault or theirs, was she "set up" or not. Could be these guys were just helping their mate pull a girl.
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While I don't know all the details, I do know that she tried to talk to the person she slept with, but he blew her off. Aside from that, she won't tell me anything else because she says she doesn't need to discuss what she already knows (Meaning that she's already made up in her mind that she was set-up, and no one can change it).