It sounds like she really needs professional help. If she is truly suicidal, you need to step in. Call a health care and ask for advice. You don't have to tell them your name, just explain the situation. She needs your help NOW. How old are her kids? If things are as bad as you said, they also need your help. Ask her straight out if she is planning to kill herself. When people get to that point, they will tell you the truth. Don't worry about putting the idea in her head because, I'm sure its already there. More than likely, the videotape is not the whole issue. Feeling used , left and unsure of how it affects her is.
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