I think that you need to help her convince herself to get some help. I mean, since there's no certainty that there was a tape, and it was a passing comment that now has her obsessed, it sounds like she really could use some help. In the end, if there WAS a tape, the worst it can cause her is some embarassment. The deeper she goes into this, the worse it'll be for her if such a thing does exist. I mean, I understand that she'd feel "violated" and "cheated" and other such things, but if it happened, she can't change that now. *sigh*
Sorry bro, this is a sticky stick situation.
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