You could always try to make a joke of it like I do with my girlfriend, say for example we are driving along and I see a women I just cannot help looking at I will say something stupid like "Wow, this girl has no shame, walking along in just those shorts and a bikini top. Really, nobody has any standards anymore these days!" Generally act all morally outraged.
Oh course, my girlfriend knows EXACTLY what I am up to, but she just laughs about it because my stupid comments diffuse the situation....
And remember, as my friend Bryant put it so eloquently yesterday when talking about getting old, "If you don't look, you must already be dead"
