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Originally Posted by analog
The point I was originally making is that if you know you can't support a child, don't have a damn child. I'm not being negative (or at least trying not to be) about her- I hope she lives to 120 so her poor kid's life isn't fucked up by losing his elderly mom at a young age. And i'm not saying a normal life can't be lead after that, but it's completely unnecessary to place such a high risk on putting a child through all that hell.
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I understand your point but who is to say she can't support a child. She is a psychiatrist so the funds must be available. And we don't know what arrangments have been made with her family regarding her want to have a child and the future of the child should she die sooner than expected.
And why would the kid's life be fucked up if the parent dies? People half her age with children die all the time.Are the lives of their children all fucked up?
And who says the child will go through hell. Good lord, look at all the people half this womans age who have kids, put them in daycare, let nanny's take care of them, ship them off here and there and barely be a parent at all.At least this woman at her age will have all the time in the world raising her child rather than a significant amount of other people who have others raising their kids because they are too busy to be a parent.