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Originally Posted by ASU2003
I doubt that you would have been on any drugs that entire time, but SSRIs and a few other ones can delay orgasms.
Experiment with holding your breath when you feel you are close.
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In terms of relaxation, this tends to do quite the opposite. I've read, heard, and witnessed that it's better to breathe deep and breathe steady. It gives something to concentrate on, without the thoughts of "will I cum our not". Not to mention the sounds made are really enpowering!
A couple of people I've been with have had problems with orgasms. I just tell them to breathe deep and concentrate on me. It helps relieve mental tension.
I just have the experince through my... well experinces, though. I don't have the equipment to offer more personal advice. Just observations
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I tend to have problems reaching orgasm. I can only reach that peak through penetration or from personal masturbation. Doesn't bother me, as my orgasms don't really feel like anything special. I found that personally it helps to know what I like. I've been with people who would try something, and I'll go, try this, my skin's picky...ect.