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Old 05-01-2006, 10:28 PM   #1 (permalink)
Tibbar75
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Female cannot reach an orgasm

It's been asked before but I have yet to find an answer. And trust me when I say that I have reseached!

I am a 23 years old female and have been sexually active for a long while and with many different people. All of my experiences involving sex have been positive. I am not shy in bed and have always been willing to try new things. I have been masturbating long before I have ever been active with anyone else. And yet I have a huge issue reaching an orgasm. I have been able to bring myself to one a handful or times and once my husband has brought me there. The only reliable source is my vibrator. It is not an issue with lack of foreplay or arouse.

I have no idea what to do, the gyno has told me to experiment and masturbate. Well I have done that. I even entertained the idea that I am a lesbian (pre husband) and I assure you I am not.

I am looking for some real advice here!

I enjoy sex, love and find my husband extremely attractive. He has no idea that I have this problem on this level. We have talked about the fact that it is hard for me to reach orgasms, and he has always been kind and patient in bed as well as willing to experiment

Could it be that I am reaching orgasms but on a less intense level? I often feel satisfied afterwards... and yet I feel empty inside.
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