It often seems like people focus less on what they have in common and more on the diffrences when looking at compatbility. I know in my last relationship we disagreed on some things for one reason or another, but hell we agreed on 95% of everything else...just because there are a few disagreements, is it necessairly a huge problem? People often forget to look at the larger picture.
Similarly, when couples have a long term relationship, lets say 6 years - then they have one bad month and breakup, is it me or the last 6 years do not have enough bearing when they are nullified by one bad month.
Gotta look at the larger picture, then make a decision from there...
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