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roadkill · 04-26-2006, 07:39 PM

I've been thinking about how come problems arise in any form of relationship. And I've also come to believe that perhaps a fundamental difference about a tiny view could cause a huge problem in any relationship.

Why? Say that person A assumes person B feel this way on subject Z192a39 Or some other obsecure though or view that person B feels is important; however because person B assumed that if A had any feelings about Z192a39 then A would express/question B about his/her view. I think that a problem could arise is that tiny view, because of it's obsecurity to anything until a key moment of insight into the relationship the assumptions of both A and B break other connections of some form causing a huge problem in the relationship.

Now I don't know what the fundamental difference are in each relationship is or how come they don't arise until a key moment. This is what I've come up so far do you think that this could in some way broaden human understandings of our relationships?

04-26-2006, 07:39 PM	#1 (permalink)
roadkill Insane	Could funamental differences be a key in relationships? I've been thinking about how come problems arise in any form of relationship. And I've also come to believe that perhaps a fundamental difference about a tiny view could cause a huge problem in any relationship. Why? Say that person A assumes person B feel this way on subject Z192a39 Or some other obsecure though or view that person B feels is important; however because person B assumed that if A had any feelings about Z192a39 then A would express/question B about his/her view. I think that a problem could arise is that tiny view, because of it's obsecurity to anything until a key moment of insight into the relationship the assumptions of both A and B break other connections of some form causing a huge problem in the relationship. Now I don't know what the fundamental difference are in each relationship is or how come they don't arise until a key moment. This is what I've come up so far do you think that this could in some way broaden human understandings of our relationships?