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Originally Posted by kalashnikov
b) what's the deal? Is it about being relaxed? taking it easy? having the right level of attraction? being significantly over an ex? the right music (for the record, especially when high, Massive Attack is a fantastic band for sex)? self confidence (obviously failure and nervousness feeds back into itself)? a combination of all of this?
has anyone else experienced this?
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I have. It was all about nerves. Once I got confident with my "performance", it never happened again.
It's about all those things. Your largest and vastly most important sexual organ is your brain. If your head's not in the game, there's no WAY your schlong will be.
I agree about Massive Attack, btw. Their remix of Craig Armstrong's "Weather Storm" is just fucking hot.