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See, this is a problem a surprising amount of guys have. We all figure that because things go right when it's easy, they always should. I mean, it's the chicks that are finicky and get stressed and stuff. We are MEN, and not subject to such trivial annoyances.
...Only it doesn't work that way. You get nervous, you get stressed, you get upset and the little guy says 'no way I'm doing that until you get your issues worked out.' And then we get even more stressed, since obviously there's something wrong with us. I mean, no guy in his twenties ever ever has trouble getting an erection, right?
You've hit on the issue yourself, so now that you know the answer it should be less of an issue. Just relax, don't stress and let things go where they'll go. The rest will generally take care of itself. And hell, if he's not going anywhere it's still no reason not to make sure it's a night she'll never forget. That's what keeps 'em coming.
Pardon the pun.
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I wake up in the morning more tired than before I slept
I get through cryin' and I'm sadder than before I wept
I get through thinkin' now, and the thoughts have left my head
I get through speakin' and I can't remember, not a word that I said
- Ben Harper, Show Me A Little Shame
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