Of course you should be disappointed. I wouldn't harp on it or even let her know, however. If my SO ever told me she was disappointed in me after I failed some huge task, I'd be heart broken. Support her all the way and let her know that it's not the end of the world if she does poorly. It's her life, so help her out and make her feel as confident as possible. If she does poorly on the exam due to a lack of care -- well that's a different story. We really need a better description of why she thinks she did poor before it's obvious whether you should express the disappointment. From what we've been given, I'd support her and tell her it will be ok.
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