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Good grief, how is it any of your business? "Disappointed" in her? What are you, her father? Even for PARENTS it's not right for them to identify with their kids so strongly. What is she, your trained monkey who has to perform for you? So she got testing anxiety, so what!
I think you need to ask yourself some serious questions. Why are you so wrapped up in your girlfriend's performance at school? Think about your answer and make sure it's TRUE--if you tell yourself, "I just want her to be happy", then you are lying to yourself and to her; if you want her to be happy then you will address the anxiety that causes poor test performance, and not add to it by making snippy remarks about how she does not "deserve" a "reward". Might as well spank her with a rolled-up newspaper like the bad puppy you seem to think she is.
Give your girlfriend an ounce of credit and try supporting her for real--imagine what SHE needs to be happy, not what you THINK she needs, or worse, yet, what YOU need to be satisfied that you are dating someone good enough.
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