Why does this bother you so much? It's been my experience that, when you're this upset about something that someone else has done to themselves, you're not really upset about the thing itself. Is this a pattern in her life? Are you worried about what it "means" for your future together? Is it a side of her personality that you don't like and are reluctant to commit to? I'd say talk about the things that are really bothering you and leave alone the silly procedural mistakes.
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