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I think there is a lot of discussion about the average traits of a high maintenance woman, but I think we are getting off the mark a bit by doing so. The term high maintenance has nothing to do with the appearance/style of the woman, yes many may be into what they wear, where they are seen and who they are with, but they could be butt ugly, wearing a muumuu and still be high maintenance. What makes them high maintenance is they require a lot of physical and emotional energy to keep them happy (if indeed they are really happy with it). There is a selfishness that is almost child like in them. I think the reason so many people associate the attractive bitch in the expensive clothes and perfect hair as high maintenance is the more attractive you are the more you can get away with it.
Dude one ‘Man she treats you like shit.”
Dude two ‘Nah shes just high maintenance”
Dude one ‘Man shes so hot’
Dude two (sighs) ‘yea’
Few or no guys ever told them off for it, and even if they did there are always men willing to play the role of sycophant if a woman is attractive enough. That being said I’ve known very unattractive high maintenance women, they just happened to find a guy willing to put up with it.
I married low maintenance myself, which means I married someone who does not always put her wants and desires as more important than mine, which is the simple secret to a happy marriage at the personality level.
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