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baronmandark · 04-19-2006, 06:51 AM

not really a chance no, I trust my wife completely. I thought that there might be someone else on the side as well, and i confronted her about it. She was genuinely upset at the notion (she is not one of those people who can cry on command, and she was sobbing) I firmly believe that she is being faithful, no matter what her problems are. All I want is for her to be happy, and if it comes down to it, in the end, I will give up on sex forever if it will make her smile. I don't want that outcome of course, and I am doing everything I can to avoid it. We had a discussion about this last night, lasting until 4am, and we are going to start counselling on monday.

I have been avoiding the molestation issue with her because she doesn't want to talk about it, I guess I had built a mental block about it too. I never really thought about it as the root of our problem until you guys brought it up. I will encourage my wife to talk about it in the counselling session, in an open, honest, non-judgemental room where she is surrounded by people she loves and that love her.

Once again, thank you all for your wonderful support. I think I will be here for quite some time.

04-19-2006, 06:51 AM	#31 (permalink)
baronmandark Upright Location: Goldsboro, NC, USA	not really a chance no, I trust my wife completely. I thought that there might be someone else on the side as well, and i confronted her about it. She was genuinely upset at the notion (she is not one of those people who can cry on command, and she was sobbing) I firmly believe that she is being faithful, no matter what her problems are. All I want is for her to be happy, and if it comes down to it, in the end, I will give up on sex forever if it will make her smile. I don't want that outcome of course, and I am doing everything I can to avoid it. We had a discussion about this last night, lasting until 4am, and we are going to start counselling on monday. I have been avoiding the molestation issue with her because she doesn't want to talk about it, I guess I had built a mental block about it too. I never really thought about it as the root of our problem until you guys brought it up. I will encourage my wife to talk about it in the counselling session, in an open, honest, non-judgemental room where she is surrounded by people she loves and that love her. Once again, thank you all for your wonderful support. I think I will be here for quite some time. __________________ Two muffins are sitting in the oven. One muffin turnes to the other and says: "Getting pretty hot in here, Huh?" The other muffin screams: "AAAHHHHHH!!! A TALKING MUFFIN!!!"