there's a big difference between doing the well coifed, well manicured, well dressed look because it makes you feel good... I think that's healthy (one of these days I'll be able to pull it off) the high maintenance person doesn't necessarily do it for herself/himself... They do it for the attention from other people...
everything a high maintenance person does - -is about getting something (validation mainly) from someone else...
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