Originally Posted by baronmandark

her mom lives in kansas alone, she was molested in that house when she was very young by her then step-brother, I think seeing that house again from the perspective of an actual "relationship" scared the hell out of her, but this is just a guess. Her mom absolutely loves me, we talk like old friends. What do you all think, maybe she is reliving her past when I touch her? If so, how can I help her

and Sam821, dont be scared, if you love her then marrige will be the most wonderful thing you have ever experianced, my married life is absolutely wonderful in every regard except sexually. and dont think that my problem is the norm, I know countless married couples who are happier IN EVERY WAY than they have ever been.