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If your wife is not willing to communicate about problems in the relationship nor try to fix them, you need to evaluate whether you want to be with someone like that before you lose the ability to move on. Marriage is going to be tough if your partner can't even talk about problems, let alone solve them. I would really try and have open communication about this; counseling would be a good idea if you could get her to acknowledge the problem and start acting to do something about it.
Don't cheat, though. You are better than that.
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