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Originally Posted by Infinite_Loser
Recently my girlfriend of two years cheated on me. I won't bore you with a long-winded, sad story because really there is none. It was her fault as much as mine. I'm over the fact that she cheated on me but the thing that's messing me up is this.
I want to hear EVERY single gory detail of the incident (What they did, how they did it, how many times they did it and so on and so forth). It's not like I want to know to get off on it or something, but it's running through my head over and over and over again. I don't have any hostile feelings towards her but damn it, I wanna' know the details. I guess my thinking is that if she just gives me the details that I won't sit here making up images of what I think happened. I could ask her but then she might think me crazy or something.
So my question is if this is a normal reaction or just plain freaky?
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I find it odd that you said 'it was her fault as much as mine' a normal way to say it would be 'its my fault as much as hers' meaning she cheated but you could have done things better leading up to it. Maybe I'm reading to much into it but WHY do you think you drove her into cheating? That may effect the advice you get as most people are pretty hard on cheaters here.