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Ask, as stated above, letting your mind wander and wonder what happened is worse. It's like a car accident, you don't really need the pictures of the accident victims stuck in your head, but that picture is a prettier one than your imagination put there. It is called closure and one of the main reasons why cops and prosecutors give slightly lesser sentences to criminals that sit in court and describe everything they did to their victims.
You technically ARE asking for the details of what your girlfriend did, but what you are trying to do, even subconsciously is asking her, "What didn't she do?"
peace
--tenchi
P.S. my 2cents......She cheated on you. If you are still close, be friends. Find someone that has more respect for you to call your girlfriend/wife.
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