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Originally Posted by uptown
snippy...Another factor I think is that when one fills their eyes with gorgous 20 yr olds it's easier to overlook the fact that you are yourself getting older, it's not so easy to do that when you're face to face with your middle aged partner...snip
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That's true but then again the thread starter is still in her early 20's not nearly middle aged yet.
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Originally Posted by uptown
snippy...It is also something of a depressant, particularly if a guy has unemployment or other self-esteem lowering issues going on in his life.
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This is kindof what I was thinking when I asked "why doesn't he have work." This sounds like an issue that isn't caused by the porn. Perhaps he looking at the porn because of another underlying issue.
I had a SO staying home without a job and no kid to watch, who spent most of their time viewing porn. When I got home they pursued sex relentlessly. Multiple times a day every day was par for the course and I got to the point that I was sick of it. Too much sex can be a bad thing too. So in my experience (this one particular man at least) was excited by the porn, and even though he would masterbate during the day, he was still ready and willing come evening when I was home from work.
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