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Originally Posted by lurkette
I agree with savvypup - I'd have to say that if you're obsessing about this and wanting to know every detail, then you're not really "over" her having cheated on you. Why do you want to know what happened? What purpose would it serve? Do you think it would make you feel less "left out" to know everything, like now she doesn't have that experience that happened completely without you?
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I've always been to type of person who has to know the small details of any given situation. I don't know why that is, but it's how I am. I'm not trying to think about her cheating. Unfortunately there are idle times in the day when my mind just starts to wander and think about things no matter how hard I try not to. I don't care how disgusting or whatnot the details are, but I want them. I suppose it'd give me a peace of mind to simply know what happened instead of constantly making up what I think happened.
For the record, I don't hate me girlfriend at all. I know that she made a mistake in which I contributed to and won't happen again, so ill feelings aren't an issue.