catch 22 basically, think very hard, do you really want to know? I don't know that you do. You are most likely very hurt by what happened, even if you do say that it partly your fault. Knowing EXACTLY what happened is not going to change anything, and it might make it even worse.
The human brain is trained to ask questions, even if it is something you already know for a fact, hell, you could have even seen her do it for all it matters, and would still want her to tell you about it, right?
My advice, for what's it's worth, get the basics, the bare min, and if you both want to continue on with the relationship (it will be hard to do, to say the least) Talk about why it happened, not the when, where and how.
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