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Originally Posted by uptown
I don't think you're hearing me.. being a small breasted gal with a guy who makes his love of big breasts really obvious is like a form of torture.
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Ah, I misunderstood. Yes, I would say that's a form of torture. I once dated a woman who had only dated black guys up until she dated me. She would go on and on about how I was different than black guys (I'm white as snow in look, speech, and pretty much everything else). It rubbed me the wrong way until I realized something: this girl went on about how she liked things that I wasn't, but she was with me. That realiziation, while a bit dry, did make me feel better. I know it sounds bad, but she liked me inspite of the fact that I was white. She liked other parts of me so much, she was able to put aside something that I think she saw as a flaw just so she could be with those other parts (and I don't mean that as an inuendo). That says something.
I know it seems cold, but think aobut how much your SO feels for you. Yes, there may be cosmetic imperfections -beauty is in the eye of the beholder, after all- but your SO has feelings for you that are deeper.
I'm not saying you aren't justified in being hurt. I'd say you are justified, and you probably should say something...just bear in mind that there is more to life than breasts in your SO's mind.
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Originally Posted by skier
i am a fan of cleavage. That being said, I actually enjoy playing around with smaller breasts than large.
One thing that really annoys me about cleavage is women who display that cleavage very prominently but get pissed off at you if they catch you looking at it.
It's not that difficult to wear a normal women's t-shirt instead of a deep v-neck.
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AMEN. If I'm walking around in jeans with half a ball showing, I'm don't have the right to be mad if people stare. The fault lies in the exhibitionist, not the innocent person who happens to be caught by the exhibition.
Those would be very uncomfortable jeans, btw. Can you imagine the tan lines?