My libido varies so much from day to day that it's hard to pin down. Some days it's 100%, bouncing-off-the-walls-like-a-12-year-old-with-hormones horny. Some days it's nothing. Some days it's 30%, like I'll do it if he really wants to but quite frankly it's not the first thing on my list. And sometimes it's 80%, where I want it, but I want it to be natural, slow, and lovely.
Most everyone's sex drive is pretty strongly influenced by the amount of stress in their lives. Mine definitely takes a dive when I have other things to think about, simply because those other things are fighting for headspace.
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