I'm still hedging on posting about why I voted the way I did. I'm definitly bi-sexual. But I've never had any experience with _anyone_ MALE OR FEMALE, other than my SO. I love men, but am equally attracted to women - and I do think that circumstances play a large role in the level of attraction. I don't really notice people sexually for the most part, so maybe that's not a fair assessment. I'm certainly not just basing it on fantasies or dreams. I'm open to anything. And there's a particular woman I _think_ I've actually been in love with for a long time. My husband swears that he wouldn't consider it cheating (he thinks it's hot) but honestly I'm not sure I wouldn't. I don't think experimenting is worth jeapordizing our relationship because I do value it so much. Nor would the possible results be worth jeapordizing my friendship with this woman. It's a confusing morass and all in all I'm glad that we practice monogamy. It keeps me from having to resolve my tangled emotions in that arena. I'm pretty sure that if I could over-come my own body image issues I would be willing to engage a third party in our relationship, or find a female love interest with his blessing. I can't help but wonder if he would _really_ be as okay with it as he thinks he would. I would still consider it cheating if he suddenly developed an interest in men and wanted to sleep with one... It would hurt if he sneaked and lied about it, no matter the gender of the partner. So I answered bi-curious because that is all I will probably ever be.
