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Nimetic · 04-13-2006, 03:10 PM

Look, I didn't 'do it' until fairly late.

I simply wasn't impressed by the prospects that were on offer earlier, and the more overt they became the more annoyed I became.

But the thing is - once you have had sex a few times, it's less of a big deal, and I think you become more comfortable with women (or men.. depending). Anyways, I did.

Don't get me wrong, I think that it would be great to have sex for the first time with somebody of great importance to you. That would be very romantic. I just think that the odds are stacked against you. It's being a muso I suppose and wanting your first public gig to 100% successful be in front of cheering fans. Not likely to happen.

That's probably a stupid analogy... Forget about it. But yeah. As humans, even when we a mad keen on somebody we still make mistakes, so it's probably worthwhile to go off and do the sex bit independantly of all that romancy stuff.

Ok, so in the end I'm saying there's no need to rush - but no need to wait either. Just make sure you use a condom eh.

04-13-2006, 03:10 PM	#22 (permalink)
Nimetic Junkie Location: Melbourne, Australia	Look, I didn't 'do it' until fairly late. I simply wasn't impressed by the prospects that were on offer earlier, and the more overt they became the more annoyed I became. But the thing is - once you have had sex a few times, it's less of a big deal, and I think you become more comfortable with women (or men.. depending). Anyways, I did. Don't get me wrong, I think that it would be great to have sex for the first time with somebody of great importance to you. That would be very romantic. I just think that the odds are stacked against you. It's being a muso I suppose and wanting your first public gig to 100% successful be in front of cheering fans. Not likely to happen. That's probably a stupid analogy... Forget about it. But yeah. As humans, even when we a mad keen on somebody we still make mistakes, so it's probably worthwhile to go off and do the sex bit independantly of all that romancy stuff. Ok, so in the end I'm saying there's no need to rush - but no need to wait either. Just make sure you use a condom eh.