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Originally Posted by MEAD
If you do it to get it over with, it will only add to the pressure of an already stressful situation.
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How do you figure? Seems to me, if your first time is with the person you hope to spend the rest of your life with, the stakes are somewhat higher than they would be with just a casual partner.
Either way, fact is, first-time sex is generally lousy. There are exceptions, but... Personally, I lasted
literally about four seconds my first time. She was great about it (and I did better the second time!), but that could only have been more awkward if she was somebody I had designs on a long-term relationship with.