I lost mine to someone I was in love with. For me that was the only way it was going to happen. I think the first time is rather important to many people, just as many first times are important, first time you saw your favorite band live, the first time you rode a bike, etc... This is a pretty weighty first time, and there's nothing wrong with wanting to wait to find the right moment. If you do it to get it over with, it will only add to the pressure of an already stressful situation. You want to be comfortable as possible, and whatever makes you most ocmofrtable, go with that.
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Here are some phrases I'd like to be able to say, in all honesty, before I die.
"That's it, send out the ninjas!"
"So then I had to kill my way to the second floor."
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