Personally it all depends on how ready you are to have sex.For me, I had no regrets on losing it, and once I did I never thought about it.I love the girl I lost it to, but we were only dating 3 weeks before we had sex.She was not a virgin.One of my friends was depressed when he lost his, another was fine with it.Sex is nice, but don't build it up to be something it isn't.If you think virginity is a huge deal, I would suggest waiting for a relationship(I would suggest this anyways, simply because I'm not a fan of one-night stands).
If you're having doubts, I say wait.If you decide not to wait, don't make a huge deal out of it.You don't "lose" anything.Virginity isn't tangible.To me it just means inexperience.
It's 2am, so if this post rambles or doesen't make complete sense, I'm sorry.I'll check back on it tomorrow.
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