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Originally Posted by Cynthetiq
The key to it all is communiction as to what is acceptable and unacceptable. Remember the other person is *NOT* a mind reader.
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will and Cyn have it right, you two will have to decide for yourselves what is meant by an open relationship. Inform her that you are in fact, not a mind reader and need to know exactly what she means in specific terms.
For myself, I consider and 'open relationship' to be one that is not mutually exclusive. Basically you still do all the bf/gf stuff together, but are allowed to do it with other people as well. This may or may not be what your SO means. Typically this comes into play when one or both people aren't ready to 'settle down'. Whatever the case may be the best thing you can do is ask her about it.