I don't consider porn cheating. When hubby and I first started dating, I was uncomfortable with him looking at it and I felt that he should be getting what he needed from me. I've since changed my outlook...I don't have a problem with him looking at it, and frankly, I look too. I think it can provide spice to fantasies and to sex in general. However, if he would rather look at porn that have sex with you, his living breathing girlfriend, that is something completely different. The only advice I can give in that case is to talk to him. There is probably an underlying issue there that needs to be resolved.
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