Tecoyah, I can't answer your question either. There weren't enough options!
My husband and I have trouble fitting in anywhere simply because we're too liberal for the conservatives and too conservative for the liberals. We're both deeply spiritual but not really religious in the sense I think you mean. I'm sure there's a huge sub-set of people out there with similar qualities, but I haven't managed to find any yet... As an eg: With hubby in the AF we are constantly "attacked" by the friends of our ultra-liberal friends. We're asked to defend the views of the extreme right, and it's assumed that we share those views. While amongst those of our friends with serious right leanings we're "attacked" and asked to defend the views of the "hippy tree-huggers" we've also befriended. So I guess our answer is, somewhere in the middle on both counts?