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Originally Posted by thelifeandtimes
My ex-girlfriend and I were dating for about a year before she decided she needed to act her age and not have to deal with committment at such a young age. She broke it off a little bit more than a month ago. Within that month, she tells me she misses me a lot and that she needs some more time to get her stuff together, which really means, I need some more time to mess around with other people before we can get back together. Anyways, about a week ago, I met a girl at the movies and we immediately hit it off, and we've been talking ever since. Last night we both decided we would like to start dating each other and see where our attraction leads us. My ex sits next to me in my government class and she found out and asked me if I liked her. I told her i did. I wasn't going to spare the truth for her happiness. Now the question is, is should I feel bad about this? We've only been apart for a month, and I'm already starting to date someone new, is it too soon?
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She is the one who broke it off with you, so tough shit. The only reason she's feeding you that bullshit about missing you and being inquisitive about your new girl is because her ego is ruffled by the fact that you're not moping and begging her to come back to you.
My advice to you is to never take her back... ever. Even if she begs you to take her back don't do it because she''ll dump you again. Obviously she wants to go have sex with other guys and it bothers her that you might be getting some new poontang while she may not have gotten the chance to sample some new wood yet.
Do your best to make it work with the new girl, and don't feel any remore about the ex. She's history.