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If you label someone as "the one", then you're simply saying you see a lot of qualities in the person that you like. Take for example:
1. drinks tea
2. reads books
3. loves movies
4. is a vegetarian
5. has an athletic body
One person will say they love that their partner drinks tea, reads books, and is the "perfect" body type, because they love to relax with some tea, take in a book, and like their SO to be athletic in build. Another person will ignore all the book-reading and tea-drinking and could care less about the athletic build, but be super happy they're a vegetarian who loves movies.
All the things you see in your "one" are just a part of them. There are things you don't pay attention to, or mentally "ignore" because they don't stand out for you. That person could very well be "the one" for many people, each person enjoying what personality traits they lock onto, and pushing aside the others that don't stand out.
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